You see I'm a firm believer that God has begun a great sanctification work in me from the second I said "Amen" when I answered the salvation message. I know for a fact that that very work that had begun almost 4 years ago will not be complete as long as I'm breathing on this earth. That being said I also know that the degree of sinfulness in me today should not be the same level it was 4 years ago which shouldn't be the same 4 years from now. I often look at people in the Church and say " Why are they so complacent in their pursuit of holiness? They keep rounding the same mountain over and over." The actuality is that chances are that person is not 1. Relying on God to allow for His deliverance or 2. They become complacent because they think they're holier than new Christians and thus they have arrived rather than look at the standard God has.
I personally have really strict views on sex, dating, music, and ultimately anything secular. My 'strict' views come out in my preaching, teaching, ministering, and overall opinion of subjects. I've come to learn even my standards are too lax compared to God's. I don't want to portray a God that is so strict and unmerciful that He is unapproachable because that is the exact opposite of His nature. I want to just reveal the absolute Sovereignty and Holiness of God. I often hear Christians say, " I have grace for that!" Or " I'm not held to that kind of standard." I do believe that God calls some Christians to a higher level of holiness than others, BUT I don't believe our visions are to be too far off from one another. One subject that comes to me is the issue of dating. Teenagers and your dating. It's enough to make me nuts. My personal view...a Christian is not able to causally date and still be following the will of God. I do not believe that God would ordain a relationship that is meant to end and most of the time end with regret and hurt. I've heard before, " Well that's just too strict or legalistic!" Can we look for a second at God's intention of dating? God has ordained courting as the period of time to better familiarize yourself with the spouse He designed for you before engagement and marriage. Courting is sacred. I believe that it is the foundations of the family and relationship the two will have to build on. Courting is meant to study, pray, and encounter God together, and as well learn each other. I don't believe courting should be entered lightly but rather it be a declaration of a marriage in the making. The emotional and spiritual connection that is destined to happen between to Spirit-filled Christians should not be entered casually and be entered with multiple different people before " the one" rolls along. God calls you to be patient and alert waiting for the man or woman He has for you. Not play around until they come along.
God's final destination for us is far greater than we can ever comprehend. I honestly believe that if we throw away the vision we have of holiness based on earthly merit and others that we would become an even more empowered people constantly moving towards the prize. When we become God minded rather than church minded our Holiness comes so much easier than trying to keep up with an ever changing standard that the World and the Church set for us. It may seem that achieving God's standard of Holiness is much harder than your own personal criteria or the criteria posed by the people of the Church. However, that's just what the enemy wants you to believe. When you decide to abandon every preconceived notion of how to be holy and allow God to define it in your heart so gain a freedom that the enemy never wanted you to have. Being holy becomes so much easier because God just doesn't stop at giving you the desire to be His kind of holy, but He personally, by His sovereign hands walks you through the process to the point that the thought of sin quickly becomes taken captive. God won't create a standard within you that you can't reach, but by His Spirit will make you a new being and one day will complete it in Glory.
"being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus."- Philippians 1:6